I’m going to open this up to you guys. So, it’s fairly obvious that nuns consider Jesus their spouse. But could Jesus be a godspouse in the pagan sense? Has anyone heard of a pagan being approached by him for such a relationship?
Read everything and experiment to find what works for you. And never let anyone you’re “doing it wrong”. Go with your gut. lol. It’s also not a bad idea to look into historical Christian customs, and even just Christian customs from other cultures, as they can be a great source of inspiration. I’d also suggest making sure to keep a journal of your research and experiences if you don’t already. :)